Hi Bloggies! What’s shaking in your world? I had a productive morning of cardio, lifting, and then a Blogger Meetup with Madeline at our local coffee hangout.
Normally we meet at this coffee shop but I suggested we take advantage of the pool since it’s been super hot. Well, it was super hot when we discussed this a few days ago but today it was crisp, cool, and very windy so we took a pass on the pool. Murphy’s Law of course that it was cool and windy today since the last two times, here and here, that we met, it was a scorcher out!
Madeline and I chatted. I did a lot of the talking and Madeline did a fabulous job listening and it was just what I needed. Thank You, Madeline! And Skylar did a lot of running around nearly breaking a glass French Press they had for sale and knocked over some other displays. So relaxing as the mother when that happens….not!
We were sitting in an open doorway and our hair was blowing like crazy from all the wind!
We caught up on life and it was perfect. Skylar thought so, too.
And had I known I was going to get all kinds of Fabulous Comments and Compliments, I would have posted some pictures of myself in a dress a long time ago! Thanks, you all made my day! You sure know how to make a Soccer Mom feel like a Hot Mama!
I oved your chime-in’s on Evil Stares and Glances. Women can be so catty and jealous. I don’t get it and think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. To me, Confidence is sexy. Intelligence is even sexier. Cockiness is a total turnoff. Glad to know you can appreciate beauty and don’t give out any evil eyes! I did appreciate those of you who mentioned that one reason you stare at other attractive women is not because you’re trying to give her dirty looks, but because you’re trying to pick up some pointers and tips from her. That was really enlightening and makes a lot of sense…thanks to a few of you for sharing that!
And the Vegan Pineapple Cream Cheeze…I hope that you make it! It’s so easy and good!
And you know what, I found one!!!!
It’s absolutely gorgeous and I will not post pictures of it until after my show but suffice to say, it’s beautiful and I think I look pretty damn good in it. A bad suit can derail all the training I’ve done so it was key to find something that brings out my best and compliments me.
I will, however, show you the Shoes for the Show that I ordered which arrived.
In bodybuilding shows, it’s the norm to wear 4 to 5 inch heels. They must be clear. I pushed the envelope a little bit and got mine with rhinestones.
And it was just a Fitness Show kind of day because my Membership Card for the Natural Bodybuilding Organization called ABA/INBA in which I am now a member arrived!
The way it works is that in the great, vast world of bodybuilding, there are different federations or organizations. In order to compete in any show, you must be a member of that show’s federation. You apply for membership, pay your money, and then you can compete within that organization.
There are tons of different organizations! A dizzying array! Some of the bigger organizations include NPC, IFBB, FAME, Muscle Mania, and a half dozen more. Here’s a nice list with links if you’re interested.
I’m now an official ABA/INBA Member!
I got to thinking that smoothie bars can get away with charging and arm and a leg for smoothies, which have very inexpensive ingredients, i.e. fresh or frozen produce, but because we don’t want the mess or hassle of it in our house, most people will pay way too much for smoothies and let someone else make them. Solution? Set Up An In-Home Smoothie Bar!
Step 1: Tool Yourself Up. Get your Blender, Vita, Bullet, etc. Ready!
Step 2: Gather Your Ingredients. Before you start let’s take a look at what you could have on hand to make your smoothies with.
* Fresh fruit (in a bowl and/or fridge)
* Fresh greens (in your fridge. e.g. spinach, watercress, lettuce, kale, chard etc.)
* Frozen fruit (in your freezer)
* Ice-cubes (in your freezer)
* Sweeteners (e.g. dates, agave nectar, maple syrup [not raw], honey, stevia etc.)
* Flavourings (e.g. mesquite meal, carob powder, cacao nibs/powder, vanilla pods/essence etc.)
* Superfoods (e.g. maca, bee pollen, green powders, hemp protein powder, etc.)
* Nuts and seeds and/or their butters (for nut milks)
* Cartons of coconut water/ milk
* Oils (not necessary, but some people like to use hemp, flax or coconut oil in their smoothies for EFAs)
* dates for sweetening and agave nectar (light) if you want something new to try; vanilla pods or essence and/or mesquite powder for flavourings; bee pollen (for non-vegans) as an incredible superfood and coconut oil for fat if you’d like some.
Step 3: Pick Your Spot. Whether you choose to make your smoothies at home or at the office, picking the right spot is key. Why? Because if it’s somewhere awkward to get to, or not near to the sink or a million miles from your fridge, ingredients or glasses, then you’ll feel much less inclined to actually use your smoothie bar!
Step 4: Choose Your Recipes. Now that you have your blender, your ingredients and your actual “bar” all set up, what are you going to make? find some smoothie recipes you love (or would love to try) from recipe books and photocopy them (or print the eZine recipes off) and file them in those clear files you bought and you’ll be all set to go.
Step 5: Get Smoothie-ing! I generally recommend that if you are very new to smoothie making that you start very simply, as I did, with pure water, a couple of small bananas (or one big one) and one handful of fresh fruit of your choice. Strawberries work well, as do any berries, or peach, nectarine, pineapple or mango. All of these are good and very straightforward to buy and use. From there, when you have your confidence up and are ready to try new things, you can start to get a bit more experimental and add in other more unusual ingredients such as the powders and potions and even a little bit of oil if you’d like to (ideally no more than 2 teaspoons per pint).
Adapted from Karen Knowler
Some Fun Recipes I’ve Seen For Smoothies and Smoothie Recipes are like underwear, everyone has a lot but it’s always nice to change things up…haha!
1. Blend on high until dates and nuts are liquefied.
Super Smooth Green Smoothie
By Martine Lussier
Yield 4 cups (2 servings)
Feel free to use any leafy greens that you have on hand. I love to use spinach, kale, and romaine leaves.
1 large banana
1 large mango, peeled and chopped
3 dino kale leaves, stems removed
1 ½ cups raw almond milk
1 Tbsp raw almond butter
½ Tbsp maca powder
Optional: 4 drops of stevia
Blend all ingredients using a high speed blender until smooth.
Enjoy right away.
Cranberry Lemon Smoothie
By Martine Lussier
Yield 5 cups (2-3 servings)
I love this smoothie because it is both refreshing and a little tart. The goji berries and Young Living Lemon essential oil adds extra nutrition, and the zesty tingly taste of pure lemon essence!
10 ounces frozen cranberries
2 large bananas
1 orange, peeled
¼ cup goji berries, soaked in 2 cups warm water for 30 minutes
4 drops of Young Living Lemon Essential Oil
Blend all ingredients (using the goji berry soaking water) using a high speed blender until smooth.
Relax and enjoy!
For the Hot Weather, I like my Chocolate Coffee Vanilla Protein Shake
Or, try a Mango Banana Vanilla Smoothie
Green Food: an Edamame Salad with Romaine, Tomatoes, Cukes
And I had a few bites of some
Yoga Today is Astavakrasana (8 Angle Pose)
Gym & Weights Workout Today: Day 5 – Shoulders/Triceps/Biceps
Tip of the Day: My 2 Pounds of Chia Seeds Give Away!
Before I get to Today’s Questions, thank you to Everyone who Shared with me What you Did on Mother’s Day and I was so genuinely moved by all of you who have such loving, close, and wonderful relationships with your mother. I am trying to build that with Skylar so that in 20 years she will feel half as loving towards me as you all seem with your moms. I was truly tearing up over the weekend seeing the beautiful posts that so many of you wrote about your moms!
I almost never reprint passages on my blog, but I have seen this before and it came across my inbox again yesterday. I want to share it with all of you, and I bawl my eyes out every time I read it, so you’re forwarned:
Being With Your Mother
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.
She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would Love to spend some time with you.”
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my Mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
“What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked.
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
“I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.”
She thought about it for a moment and then said, “I would like that very much.”
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up, I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.
“I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son and they were impressed,” she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half-way through the entrees, I lifted my eyes and saw Mother sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
“It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said.
“Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded.
During the dinner , we had an agreeable conversation nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.”
“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home.
“Very nice, much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her.
Sometime later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place Mother and I had dined. An attached note said:
“I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: ‘I love YOU’ and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.
Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till some “other” time.Author Unknown
I’ll wait for you to get a tissue and wipe your eyes….
1. Do you like high heels? Can you walk in them? What’s the highest pair you wear out?
I love high heels, the higher the better! I am glad that some of the taller ladies appreciated in my last post that I wear heels and embrace my height, and don’t cower or wear flats. No way! I am well over 6′ feet in heels and love it! I can see better from way up high…haha!
2. Fave smoothie recipe? Or site you love to go to for smoothie ideas? Do you like smoothies or do you like to chew?
I admit, as cool as an at-home smoothie bar is, I do love to chew my food hence the high raw vegan crunchy thing, so I don’t do smoothies as often as some people do. What’s your favorite smoothie?
3. Swimsuits. How skimpy do you go? Are you a modest less-is-more person or more of a Let it All Hang Out and Work It person? And how many do you need to try on before you buy one? If you can get 1 keeper in less than 10 try-on’s, I am impressed! Feel free to tell me if you’ve ever rocked a thong on a beach or gone topless or nude. May as well keep the comments interesting!
It depends on where I am, i.e. a family pool vs. a Caribbean vacation with Scott, alone, before Skylar. I don’t like evil looks so I choose my swimwear accordingly. I plead the 5th on the second part of the question!
4. Have you always been close with your mom? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? Did you ever go through a phase, like high school maybe, where you weren’t as close but it’s better now? If you are close with you mom or your parents, what is the number one or two things they do as parents that help make you feel close to them? i.e. not flying off the handle if you were honest about underage drinking or allowing you the space to fail and not try to “protect” you from mistakes, or what have the really done “right” to foster a close relationship now that you’re an adult? I’m all ears!
Stay Tuned For a Stellar Raw Taco Salad Recipe…